FEB. 10 2012
TOPIC: HOW TO COME OUT TO SOMEONE YOU KNOW (parents/friends/other family)?
Ok, for those who are still hiding from this world, we all know how it feels to be really scared and how difficult it is to come out to ANYONE. The crazy thing is you will never be truly yourself if you don’t accept who you are. Not letting those around you know who you are is basically saying you DON’T KNOW or HAVEN’T ACCEPTED who you are. Be confident, be yourself, be strong! There’s nothing wrong with you, you were born to live and be a happy human being and you can only fulfill that by being true and honest to yourself. It’s extremely a hostile time when you’re about to come out. Thoughts of not being accepted is the most scariest! Not every person believes what you believe and you may lose some friends along the way BUT if you truly have good friends they won’t really care! Family is a little tricky, because these are the people that should love you unconditionally and they should always want the best for you whether they accept your life or not. If you do have good supportive parents they will back you up no matter what. There is a condition to this I believe, we all know you been hiding this secret for so long that you finally tell your family but you CANNOT just expect them to accept it. It will take a great amount of time if your parents are closed-minded. You have to ease them into it and slowly they will accept you. You also can’t go around them acting all gay and saying inappropriate stuff around them. You don’t want them to be grossed out about it. There’s a line you don’t want to cross with closed-minded parents and that is the RESPECT LEVEL, if they haven’t accepted your life, RESPECT THAT! If they don’t want you to show affection to the girl you’re dating DON’T DO IT IN FRONT OF THEM. They want to feel comfortable in the situation and you just have to respect that. The lesson is to find yourself…be you and if that means your gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgender THEN SO BE IT!
FEB. 14, 2012
Sorry we were M.I.A., had to prepare for this Valentine’s day. Happy Valentines Day!!! So since there’s a lot of love in the air…just announcing how wonderful it is to love and be loved. If you don’t have a Valentine this year, WELP, I guess the day just couldn’t be more disgusting. Haha. For those who have loved ones in the military…SEND THOSE LETTERS! We know a couple of friends whose loved ones are in the military. We feel for you, for not being able to see them and to share this day with them. We hope you surround yourself with good family and friends. For those who have LONG DISTANCE relationships, we hope you got to fly out and see your loved ones! We know we did. :) Love can be a scary thing but its definitely up to you to take risks, love hard, and just BE YOU. Its not easy, you got to find someone that is on the SAME page as you. Someone with the same dreams, goals, and aspirations as you do in life. Doesn’t matter if you’ve been hurt in the past and you have trust issues. Let it go!!! Learn for past experiences and fix what YOU did wrong and move from it in a positive way and let people in when you want to take that risk on someone with great potential. :) Have fun everyone.
Tell yourself you’re BEAUTIFUL everyday. There is NOTHING wrong with you. I can assure you the people who bring you down ONLY have insecurities about themselves and love to feel better about themselves by bringing people down with them. Thinking NEGATIVE thoughts only sets you back and you only hinder yourself with negativity. Fill your life with positivity and optimistic thoughts. Your thoughts become actions.! They always do. When you wonder why shit isn’t going your way, its because your thoughts are not in the right place. One little negative thing can set off your whole mood. Get yourself in a good place. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, YOU ARE WORTH IT AND YOU DESERVE GREAT THINGS!!!